At The Hospital: Helping My Child Cope

2008 January 28 by: Scott

The hospital can be traumatic for parents too:

Having a sick, injured, or hospitalized child often results in feelings of frustration, sadness, worry, or helplessness.

• It is a stressful time when relationships with medical staff take priority, and other important relationships and

activities get interrupted or put on hold.

• Having a sick or injured child often challenges parents’ innermost beliefs about the safety of their children.

Many parents and caregivers of hospitalized children tell us that:

• They worry about what will happen to their child, even though they don’t always show it.

• They feel unprepared to talk with their sick or injured child (or their other children) about feelings,

fears, and questions.

Special information for parents and caregivers:

You are the best person to help your child . Be patient with your child. Help your child understand what is happening.

Allow your child to talk about worries or feelings about being in the hospital. It’s okay to be scared or cry, but also help them talk about their feelings.

Younger children are often better at expressing their feelings through play, drawing, or story-telling.

Listen to your child, and help your child understand that these feelings are normal.
Talk about your feelings together. misinterpret information or other people’s feelings.

Ask questions to figure out what they know and what they imagine. Reassure your child that he or she has not done anything wrong.

Help your child see the hospital staff as helpers.

Young children are often more affected by being left alone.

Take care of yourself.

Developed by the Medical Traumatic Stress Working Group of the National Child Traumatic Stress Network.