ScottCounseling recognizes that bullying is one of the most discussed topics in our society today. As we entered the age of technology (specifically the Internet), bullying, harassment and threats have grown to an all-time high. Road rage, cyber-bullying and terroristic threats have all made it to our state capitols for our legislators to discuss and establish new laws to help curtail the increase of this unacceptable behavior. Parents need to become more educated and aware of of how to handle appropriate forms of discussion with their child to 1) assist and prevent the child from becoming the victim, and 2) assist and prevent the child from becoming the bully. Dr. Robin Goodman’s article written below shares some interesting insights and preventative techniques to help parents keep their child bully free.

Bullies: More than sticks and stones…
The search for the roots of violence has included a closer look at interactions once thought innocent. For example, the seemingly playful teasing between children may not be harmless give-and-take but may escalate into more serious aggression. Read about bullies and victims - who they are and what to do to help them.
To learn more about the research in teasing and bullying behavior we spoke with Alice Pope, Ph.D., Associate Professor of Psychology, St. John’s University, who has authored numerous publications on peer relations.
Isn’t teasing just part of growing up?
Dr. Pope: Teasing among people may be an inevitable fact of life, and unfortunately, young children are initiated into this behavior at a young age. Children cope with teasing in a variety of ways. . For example, they may walk away or stand up to the individual who is doing the teasing or confront a teaser with friends who will stand up for them. However, when the teasing turns to taunting and the child is afraid that any attempt to stop the aggressor will cause harm, the situation is more serious and possibly crosses the line into bullying.








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