Is ADD/ADHD Caused by Poor Parenting?
No! In fact, to date, scientists have not been able to find the gene that you may have passed on to your child to bring about ADD/ADHD. However, research studies have indicated that nearly 50% of all parents who have been diagnosed with ADD/ADHD have children with this disorder. Ten to thirty percent of close relatives of children with ADD/ADHD also have the disorder. Poor parenting does not cause this disorder, but some research seems to indicate that ADD/ADHD may be inherited.
Parenting Strategies In Helping A Child With Attention Deficit
Communicate. Be clear and concise when communicating with your child. Give instructions one step at a time; make requests one at a time.
Be consistent. What you expect one day should be what you expect every day. Don’t give in just because you’re tired or the child is nagging.
Set a good example. Show your child the behaviors you’d like to see. Be a model of patience, healthy habits, and good manners. Be at least as organized as you want your child to be.
Anticipate and avoid problems. Know your child’s triggers and what situations lead to problems. Become adept at heading off trouble before it starts.
Praise good behavior. Praise is a powerful reinforcer, so make every effort to “catch your child being good”.
Negotiate and consult with your child. You’re a parent, not a drill sergeant, so try to avoid barking orders at your child.
Start a dialogue, and be open to what your kid has to say.
Pick your battles. Not every situation requires intervention. Keep the big picture in mind and let the little things slide. If you don’t, your home will be one of constant conflict and criticism.
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