Discussing Peer Pressure with Your Child

2008 February 10 by: Scott

Discuss with your child ways that he or she can safely remove him or herself from a negative situation without being ridiculed by his or her friends. Examples:

“I have to go. My parents are expecting me.”

“What time is it? I forgot. I have to be someplace now. See ya!”

Just walk away. Leave. Say nothing.

“You guys! I have to stay out of trouble. I don’t want to get grounded.”

“I will really get into trouble.” “Yes, my parents will find out.” “My parent’s are not stupid.”

Encourage your child to become friends with positive peers. As a parent, it’s very difficult to pick your child’s friends. In fact, the child psychology experts say it’s sometimes impossible to do without alienating your child. However, if your child hangs around others who you believe are negative peer influences, they need to hang around places where you or other trusted adults are present. Speak with your child’s teachers, coaches, youth pastors and all adults who have responsibility for your child while they are with other children.