Congratulations! I assume from the fact your reading this article that you are A) going to be a parent again, B) going to have another grandchild, C) a friend of yours is concerned about what his or her other child is going to think about the new baby, or D) you like reading child development or parenting articles. All four of these reason deserves a congratulations! ScottCounseling wants to recognize the author of this article, Dr. Robin Goodman for the parenting insights and suggestions to assist them in the planning and interaction of new siblings.
What's a Parent to Do?
Depending on your position in the family - parent or child- the birth of a new baby can bring different feelings. For the parents it no doubt brings joy if not exhaustion. For the new sibling, it can bring happiness and jealousy. Parents may need to keep in mind the siblings point of view - for every friend you make you make an enemy. But there are things parents can do to help ease the transition and help everyone live happily ever after. Where does sibling rivalry come from? All children need and crave the love and attention of their parents. When a sibling enters the picture, one's sense of security and exclusivity is jeopardized. Out of necessity, parents must divide their time and attention among more than one child. This results in feelings of jealousy and anger, and to the illogical fears of being replaced and abandoned. These feelings can exist simultaneously with affection for the sibling and true camaraderie. Siblings who seemed locked in constant battle as youngsters can grow to be the best of friends, mentors, teachers, role models, and confidantes for their sibling mates.
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