Author Leah Davies shares in her article, “20 Ways To Foster Values in Children,” some worthwhile information that parents may want to consider while instilling and teaching values to their children. Yes, we want our children to be able to read and write, solve basic math problems and communicate effectively with others, but what about values? Davies’ article promotes value-oriented thinking while providing practical guides to teaching values to children.
“There are little eyes upon you and they’re watching night and day.There are little ears that quickly take in every word you say.There are little hands all eager to do everything you do.And a little child who’s dreaming of the day he’ll be like you.”– author unknown
What are values and why do we need them?They are cherished beliefs and standards for right and wrong. They provide direction and meaning to life. Values inspire constructive behavior. What values do you consider most important?The following is a starting place for creating your own list of values: compassion, generosity, helpfulness, wisdom, forgiveness, courtesy, punctuality, thriftiness, truthfulness, self-respect, obedience, patience, responsibility, dependability, cooperation, honesty, fairness, kindness, tolerance, humility, self-discipline, loyalty, courage, self-assurance, sportsmanship, gratitude, creativity, joyfulness, motivation, perseverance, faithfulness, knowledge, respectfulness… How can you instill values in your child?
Discussing values with your children
1. Read and discuss stories that support your beliefs.
2. Monitor your child’s media exposure that can undermine parental influence and the development of moral standards for behavior.
3. Share your approval when praiseworthy behavior is portrayed in the media and/or in real life, and discuss your displeasure when corrupt behavior is displayed.
4. Comment on your child’s admirable conduct. For example, “Johnny, you were being dependable when you fed the dog without being reminded.” “When you helped Mrs. Jones pick up sticks in her yard, you were doing a good deed and showing her you cared.”
5. Name your own commendable actions. For example, “I was honest when I told the clerk she had given me too much change.” “I recycle items because we need to do our part to protect the environment.”
6. Be polite and considerate toward others.
7. Do what you say you will do.
8. Share your time, talents and possessions.
9. Set goals and complete difficult tasks.
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