Author Mary Schlimme article will provide readers with though provoking information regarding the dangers and addictions that can become harmful, especially to children, when parents are not monitoring computer use or video game time. This article encourages parents to take a proactive approach when it come to keeping track of their child use of computers and time spent playing video games. Child development experts, such as Mary Schlimme, claim that video games can have an affect on social and behavioral changes that parents may not be aware of before an addiction occurs. Depending on the developmental stage and maturity level your child is at in his or her life, some computer and video games can bring about more aggression in behavior during a time when a child needs to be spending more time learning how to manage and cope with stressful situations.
Super Mario Brothers, Sonic the Hedgehog, and Street Fighter are familiar names to nearly all of us. They are all best selling games of major video game consoles. Over 9.8 billion dollars were spent on video games in the United States during 2001 alone, and video game consoles are present in 36 million homes in the United States (1). With the increasing amount of time that people are spending on video games, one is left to wonder if it is possible to become addicted to video games. Do we need a Video Gamers Anonymous?
Addiction has been defined as “A primary, chronic disease, characterized by impaired control over the use of a psychoactive substance and/or behavior. Clinically, the manifestations occur along biological, psychological, sociological and spiritual dimensions (2).” While there is currently no category for video game addiction in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (3), which is the manual utilized to diagnose psychological disorders, video game addicts are often described by clinicians in the field as displaying many symptoms characteristic of other addictions. These behaviors include failure to stop playing games, difficulties in work or school, telling lies to loved ones, decreased attention to personal hygiene, decreased attention to family and friends, and disturbances in the sleep cycle (4). Withdrawal symptoms can even include behaviors as severe as shaking (5).
All addictions can be dangerous and harmful to the addicted person and others around him; however, video game addiction can be particularly detrimental to children. Video games are becoming increasingly popular with children of young ages, which in turn may raise the likelihood that these children will develop addictions to video games. Furthermore, playing violent games may be associated with a tendency to behave more aggressively, although the data are inconclusive about the cause and effect nature of this relationship (6). In a study by Irwin and Gross, children who played a violent video game displayed a higher level of aggression than children who played a nonviolent game (6). Similarly, in a study by Calvert and Tan, college students who played a violent video game reported more aggressive thoughts after playing the game than college students who played a nonviolent game (6). Although several researchers advocate the position that video games cause violent behavior in children and adults, there are also many researchers who support the opposite belief, which is that video games purge one’s desire to act violently and thus reduce the amount of violence in which a person will engage (5). Other detrimental effects of video games include taking time away from a child’s studies or homework and decreased social skills (5). Finally, despite possible detrimental effects of excessive video game playing, there are benefits to playing video games in moderation. For instance, video games may improve spatial abilities, the ability to create and apply multiple strategies, and may help develop critical analyzing techniques (7). Due to the nature of video games, psychological, social, and neurological factors have all been associated with excessive video game playing.






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Karen Halls
hi I have a teenage boy who is addicted to vidio games I need help who do I take him to for help
Hi Jill:
I did more research for you and found this:
Psychiatrist Michael Brody, MD, set forth the following criteria for video game addictions. They include:
1. The person needs more and more of a substance or behavior to keep him going.
2. If the person does not get more of the substance or behavior, he becomes irritable and miserable.
Young says compulsive gaming meets these criteria, and she has seen severe withdrawal symptoms in game addicts. ?They become angry, violent, or depressed. If [parents] take away the computer, their child sits in the corner and cries, refuses to eat, sleep, or do anything.?
According to the Center for On-Line Addiction, warning signs for video game addiction include:
*Playing for increasing amounts of time
*Thinking about gaming during other activities
*Gaming to escape from real-life problems, anxiety, or depression
*Lying to friends and family to conceal gaming
*Feeling irritable when trying to cut down on gaming
Young claims the overwhelming majority of video game addicts are males under 30. It’s usually children with poor self-esteem and social problems,They’re intelligent and imaginative but don’t have many friends at school. She says a family history of addiction may also be a factor.
If you’re concerned your child may be addicted to video games don’t dismiss it as a phase, Young says. Keep good documents of the child’s gaming behavior, including:
*Logs of when the child plays and for how long
*Problems resulting from gaming
*How the child reacts to time limits
I can send you the names of some addiction experts. Please click on the Parenting Counselor Life Tube above and contact me for this information.